I know this is a long post, but I need to get this all out there.
When I started this blog I intended it to be a way to keep myself accountable. My husband believed I spent too much time on the computer and not enough time cleaning. I thought he was wrong. I wanted to keep a diary to show just how much I did all day in terms of cleaning, looking after the kids and looking after all the paperwork for our business. I didn’t think it was too bad to want some time in between to unwind on the computer, especially while having a lunch break or feeding bubs (since I’m not a big fan of daytime TV).
But after a few weeks of starting this blog, I saw there was some truth to what my husband had been saying. There were times where I got a bit lost on the computer for longer periods of time than I intended. But it was not quite as bad as he was making out, either.
I don’t know if the blog prompted me to start looking at my home a bit more or if it was something I would have realised anyway. In any case, I didn’t like the tension the housework issue was causing between my husband and myself. Bubs is starting to sleep better and more predictably through the day now and is more content to play or watch me during her awake times. I made the decision to really start doing something about my house.
I stumbled upon a great blog which I’ve been talking about with a series called 31 Days to an Organised Home. I decided to give it a shot. If you’ve been following my pantry series you’ll know it took me 5 days to complete day 5. Day 6–the kitchen–took me a week. But it propelled me to more revelations…
I realised, in getting this one room organised, things were worse than I’d thought. I’d been deluding myself.
First off–Why I Hate My House
My house sucks. No, really, it does. It’s an old, run down farmhouse. It’s full of holes where mice can get in, mould in the bathroom and until recently most of the windows didn’t even have fly screens (to air the house out meant a house full of bugs or flies). We don’t own the house, it comes with my husband’s job on the farm he manages. It is nigh on impossible to get hubby’s boss to do any improvements on the house (I’m surprised he finally paid for the flyscreens). And it’s hard for us to justify spending our own money on improving the house when it’s only temporary.
The kitchen is tiny, the mice drive me insane, dust gets in everywhere and there is minimal storage space. So I hate my house. And because I hate it, I have no pride in it. It’s too hard to maintain, so I put in minimal effort. As long as the kitchen is clean, the floors are vacuumed and the clothes are washed, that’s the main thing. Right…
Wrong. This house has never felt like a home. Most of our photographs and ornaments have never been unpacked since we moved here. I WANT a home that feels like a home. We could be here for years–I don’t want to spend years living like this.
A New Plan
I’ve started planning for my son’s birthday at the end of the year and one of my biggest stresses with birthday parties is getting the house clean enough for company. This year is the first where he’ll be inviting friends from school and I suddenly panicked at the thought of the school mums seeing my house. I knew if I wanted this house to be presentable, it would take time. A lot of time.
So I’ve come up with a plan. Kind of like the ultimate spring clean, only it’s going to take me the whole of spring to complete. Week by week I’m going to go through the house, working my way around gradually, room by room. I’m hoping this little bit by little bit approach will help the whole process seem a lot less overwhelming (since getting overwhelmed is half my problem).
How the Plan Works
Each week I will focus on one room. For each room I’ve listed what needs to be done to get it clean and organised. I can usually break the list up into 5 main points. I work on one point per day, eg: for the kitchen my first task was to tidy and organise the kitchen bench. If I get extra time I can do more than one point in a day and get ahead, or if I get behind I have two days over the weekend to catch up. I’ve also scheduled a free week in November to catch up on any rooms still unfinished. Fingers crossed I can keep to schedule. This house has to be organised by my son’s birthday party!
Tick of Approval
So far hubby is impressed. He’s already noticed a huge improvement in the kitchen (which I finished just over a week ago) and the dining room (which I’ve been working on the past week). He’s really supportive of my bit by bit approach.
I’ll be tracking my progress on here with photos, so stay tuned. I’ll take some photos of my finished kitchen and share them soon. I warn you, some of these photos will be totally embarrassing. I’m going to lay it all out there.